Tuesday, 13 October 2015

If you have a daughter make sure she READS THIS

If you have a daughter make sure she READS THIS
Please share with every youth you know,  please!

My name is chinwe, I am 26 years old, I never graduated for d
university, simply coz I was
stupid and careless, on my 24th
birthday, I received a nice gift, it
was a blackberry phone, I always
wanted one, it was like a right of
passage, my ex-boyfriend got it for
me, he was a student like me, didn’t
have a job, and I really never cared
to ask as he could afford it, my
concern at that point was, yes I had
finally arrived, other girls in my
hostel had blackberries and I would
always get pissed when I heard sounds
of pings and messages coming into
their phones at all hours and I
would stare at my nokia phone and
wish I could throw it away, but half
bread they say is better than none, so
I hoped and even fasted to get a
blackberry phone, looking back now,
if I had the opportunity, I’d have a
landline with no internet activity
what so ever, anyway I got the
blackberry phone and even got free
BIS subscription, at that moment my
life was complete, no more going to
the cyber cafes to check my emails, my
face-book or twitter, I had it all at
my finger tips, life indeed was
complete, or so I thought.
Anyway, I became addicted to my
blackberry and also my social media
applications, and since I had constant
access, I quickly gained enough
followers, and especially guys, mostly
because I had a lot of erotic pictures
on my timeline, I was popular,
finally I felt I was the main girl,
everyone wanted to follow me, I
didn’t care if it was virtual, it felt
good, checking out my profile and
having well over 8,000 followers,
more than half of which were guys,
but one particular guy caught my
attention, till this day I don’t know
what made him stand out, but we got
chatty, he sent me direct messages
and I replied, he was quiet a
gentleman , and I can’t remember
him ever asking for a nude picture
unlike the rest of them, so this made
me comfortable with him, his name
was tobi, he said he was a doctor , I
didn’t have any cause to doubt him,
he had extensive knowledge and even
gave me some medical advice from
time to time, we eventually moved
from twitter to blackberry chat, we
chatted all the time, I got so
comfortable with him, I gave him my
number, and that would come to be
the biggest mistake I ever made.
Tobi called me every day, some days
he called more than once, at night he
would call and I would lay on my bed
and have phone sex with him, his
voice was so soothing, he made me do
things I never thought possible, he
had gained so much access into my
head, I realized later I had done
some very sick and twisted things
just to please him, I would take nude
pictures of myself, I would send him
videos of me touching myself in
private, and send him voice notes of
me making moaning sounds and
simulating orgasms, and all this
while we had not met, not face to face
at least, eventually I played into his
hands, I began pestering to meet him
in person, at this point I had lost my
mind, I assumed I was in-love with
him, and when my boyfriend at the
time broke up with me, I really
welcomed it, for me it meant no
more sneaking around.
Tobi eventually agreed to come to
lagos to meet me, all this while he
had made me to believe he was in
calabar, and would take time off
work to spend a weekend with me in
lagos, when I heard this I was excited,
he told me to book a reservation for
him, stating he would pay me back as
soon as he arrived and also he said
it would make him more committed
to the visit and would convince him
of my seriousness, I bought it all, he
was smart, he was cunning, and I was
stupid, oh how stupid I was. The funny
thing was I had sent him tons of
pictures, and all I had was just one
picture of him, and whenever I asked
he would claim he wanted to be sure I
loved him for him, and not for his
looks, and sheepishly
I would try to convince him of my
undying love, and would try to
appease him with nude pictures of my
body.
He eventually made it to lagos, I met
him at the hotel, he was tall,
handsome and had a wonderful
smile, he made love to me over and
over, and convinced me to spend the
night with him, I told him I couldn’t,
because I had a test the next morning,
now at this point I don’t know what
triggered his anger, don’t know if it
was because I couldn’t spend the night,
or maybe I said something else I can’t
remember saying, but whatever it
was, brought out a very ugly side of
him, he called me foul names, and
kept going on and on about how he
always knew I was cheap, and he knew
I was sleeping with other men, the
same man whom had swept me away,
slammed me on the floor, he told me
of how he had shown his friends all
my nude pictures and how they had
watched the videos and listened to
the voice notes, he told me he had
made a bet with his friends, that I
would actually pay for him to have
sex with me, just to prove how stupid
I was, well you can imagine how I felt,
I was confused and shocked, but I
attempted to regain any little
dignity I had left, and so I tried to
mouth off at him, suddenly he
punched me in the face, and I tripped
over, and hit my head on a stool.
The next thing I remember was
waking up on the bed, I was tied up,
and he was staring at me, his eyes
were dark and he had a sinister
smile on his lips, he stood up and
walked towards me ,I tried to scream
and realized my mouth was tapped,
my head was racing, the unfortunate
part was that no one knew where I
was, he turned me over, and told me
he was going to teach me a lesson, at
this point I was naked, he rapped me
from behind, and I mean my anus,
the pain was mind blowing, I
struggled, and he hit me, when he
was done he brought out a small
blade, and he looked at me for a
minute and said, this scare is going
to always serve as a reminder, for
girls like you always trying to be
more than you are, for stupid fools
like you, he put the blade to my
nipple and cut it off, and anytime I
think of it, I still feel the pain, it was
like nothing I had ever felt before, he
was calm, like he had done it a
million times, I could feel the warm
blood dripping down my mutilated
breast, tears of fear and pain
running down my face, and suddenly
he turned around again, this time
all I saw was a flash.
I don’t know how I survived it, but I
woke up in a hospital days after, well
I was awake, bt my eyes were swollen
shut, It took a couple of days for me
to open my one good eye, and realize
d damage he had done, he had
plucked out my eye, and cut my face,
he had cut my breasts up real bad,
they had to it out, like I had cancer
or something, there was no record of
who I was, coz he had taken
everything, he had taken my bag,
containing everything I had.
I was able to tell the nurses about
what I could remember, and also give
them my mum’s phone number, the
hospital felt so much pity, they
actually treated me for free, hard to
believe right?
Anyway I was taken home after weeks
at the hospital to recuperate, it was
tough, I was blind in one eye, I had
one breast and a hideous scar of my
face, talk about your sinage, he did
a number on me, how dumb was I,
sometimes I wish he had killed me,
but there are fates worse than death,
and I guess this is one of them, he was
gone without a trace, the receipt
from the hotel was in my name, so yes
he had played me from the start.
I didn’t dare go back to school, I was
sure everyone would have heard, and
I was not going to become a statistic,
so I decided to stay home, and mind
my business, besides what do I need an
education for, I’d rather stay home,
because there is no rising from this,
there is no happy ending to this
story, this is the simple ending, I was
a victim if a sexual predator, and I
let him into my life period, and I
take full responsibility for that, I
was driven by greed and lack of
morals, I allowed myself fall into an
abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t
change anything, it’s a memory I
will have to live with for the rest of
my life, well not a memory, because I
look at myself in the mirror
everyday, who would want to see a
nude picture of a woman with one
breast, one eye, and a stub.
I have decided to publish my story,
because
with the rise of social medi

U'll die laughing...

U'll die laughing........

Son : "Daddy👨, I fell in love💗 want to date👫 this awesome girl👰!"


Father : "That's great son. Who is she?"

Son👲: "It's Tina, the neighbor's daughter".


Father : "Ohhh I wish you hadn't said that.
I have to tell u something son, but you must
promise not to tell your mother.👩
Tina is actually your sister."

The boy is naturally bummed out, but a couple of months later


Son : "Daddy, I fell in love again and she is even hotter!"


Father : "That's great son. Who is she?"☺


Son👲: "It's Pooja👧, the other neighbor's daughter."


Father : "Ohhhh I wish you hadn't said that.
Pooja is also your sister."

This went on couple 👣of times and the son was so mad👹,  
he went straight to his mother crying.


Son : "Mum I am so mad at dad ! I fell in love with
six girls👧👼👸👰 but I can't date any of them because daddys their father!"


The mother hugs💞him affectionately and says:
"My love, you can date whoever you want.
Don't listen to him. He is not your Father."⚡!!!


Son Fainted..🚼.!!!

INTERESTING

Someone has written these beautiful LINES. Read and try to understand the deeper meaning of them.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 1. Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout life.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 2. Why is a car's windshield so large & the rear view mirror so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, look ahead and move on.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 3. Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes a few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡  4. All things in life are temporary. If they are going well, enjoy them, they will not last forever. If they are going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 5. Old friends are gold! New friends are diamond! If you get a diamond, don't forget the gold! To hold a diamond, you always need a base of gold!

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 6. Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, it's just a bend, not the end!"

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 7. When God solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when God doesn't solve your problems, He has faith in YOUR abilities.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 8. A blind person asked God: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 9. When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.

Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ 10. Worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles; it takes away today's PEACE.

If you enjoyed this, please copy it and pass it to others. It may brighten someone else's day, too.

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HE BESTOWS IT UPON WHOM HE WILLS.

HE BESTOWS IT UPON WHOM HE WILLS.

The Prophet’s wives all knew of the Prophet's love for Aishah and they talked about this love with pure intentions and pure souls. Because of this love, they used to always turn to Aishah if the Prophet (pbuh) was angry with any one of them so that she could ask the Prophet (pbuh) to absolve.

Safiyya Bint Hoyaii, one of the Prophet’s wives, went to Aishah one day because the Prophet was angry with her for something. She said to Aishah: Oh Aishah! Would you ask the Prophet to forgive me and I will give you my day with him, Aishah agreed. She got up and dressed in a nice dress that was adorned with saffron, a plant that has the smell of perfume. She sprinkled it with water so that the smell would create an aroma. She then approached the Prophet (pbuh) and sat beside him. He said: Aishah move away from me for today is not your day. She told him about the deal between her and Safiyya. She shrugged and said: He [Allah] bestows it upon whom He wills. (Surat Al Jumuah, 4). The Prophet (pbuh) laughed and forgave Safiyya.

STORY OF A PIOUS WOMAN AT THE TIME OF FIRAUN....

STORY OF A PIOUS WOMAN AT THE TIME OF FIRAUN....

On the Prophet Muhammad's (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) Night Journey to Jerusalem:

The Prophet (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) smelled a very nice odor. He asked Jibril about this pleasant scent and Jibril informed him this good smell was coming from the grave of the woman whose duty used to be to comb Pharaoh's daughter\\'s hair.

This woman was a good, pious believer. One day, as she was combing Pharaoh's daughter's hair, the comb fell from her hand. At this she said, "Bismillah." Pharaoh's daughter asked her, "Do you have a god other than my father?" The woman said, "Yes. My Lord and the Lord of your father is Allah." Pharaoh's daughter told her father what had happened. Pharaoh demanded this woman blaspheme and leave Islam, but she refused. At that, Pharaoh threatened to kill her children.

He brought a great pot of water and built a great fire under it. When the water boiled, Pharaoh brought her children and started to drop them into that pot one after the other. Throughout all this, the woman remained steadfast to Islam, even when Pharaoh reached her youngest child--a little boy still breast feeding--but she felt pity for him. At that, Allah enabled this child to speak. He said to his mother, "O Mother, be patient. The torture of the Hereafter is far more severe than the torture of this life, and do not be reluctant, because you are right."

At this the woman requested Pharaoh collect her bones and the bones of her children and bury them in the same grave. Pharaoh promised her that--then dropped her into that boiling water. She died as a martyr.

The good odor the Prophet (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) smelled coming from her grave is an indication of her high status.                  .....may almighty make us these people ya ALLAH!
STORY OF A PIOUS WOMAN AT THE TIME OF FIRAUN....

On the Prophet Muhammad's (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) Night Journey to Jerusalem:

The Prophet (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) smelled a very nice odor. He asked Jibril about this pleasant scent and Jibril informed him this good smell was coming from the grave of the woman whose duty used to be to comb Pharaoh's daughter\\'s hair.

This woman was a good, pious believer. One day, as she was combing Pharaoh's daughter's hair, the comb fell from her hand. At this she said, "Bismillah." Pharaoh's daughter asked her, "Do you have a god other than my father?" The woman said, "Yes. My Lord and the Lord of your father is Allah." Pharaoh's daughter told her father what had happened. Pharaoh demanded this woman blaspheme and leave Islam, but she refused. At that, Pharaoh threatened to kill her children.

He brought a great pot of water and built a great fire under it. When the water boiled, Pharaoh brought her children and started to drop them into that pot one after the other. Throughout all this, the woman remained steadfast to Islam, even when Pharaoh reached her youngest child--a little boy still breast feeding--but she felt pity for him. At that, Allah enabled this child to speak. He said to his mother, "O Mother, be patient. The torture of the Hereafter is far more severe than the torture of this life, and do not be reluctant, because you are right."

At this the woman requested Pharaoh collect her bones and the bones of her children and bury them in the same grave. Pharaoh promised her that--then dropped her into that boiling water. She died as a martyr.

The good odor the Prophet (sul Allahu alayhi wassalaam) smelled coming from her grave is an indication of her high status.                  .....may almighty make us these people ya ALLAH!

RASULULLAH SAID

RASULULLAH SAID

“The RIGHTS of one MUSLIM over another are FIVE:

1. RETURNING the greeting of sa5laam,

2. VISITING the SICK,

3. Attending FUNERALS,

4. Accepting INVITATIONS, and

5. Saying YARHAMUK ALLAH (may Allah have mercy on you) to one who SNEEZES.”

[AL-BUKHAARI 1240 and MUSLIM 2162]

THE GRACE OF ALLAH

I loved this so am sharing with you:-
Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life.
Never ask for a lighter rain, just pray to Allah for a better umbrella. - That is the attitude!

Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. It's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end.

Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them; a Wall or a Bridge? - Remember you are the architect of your life.

Search for a good heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, coz beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.

It’s not important to hold all the good cards in life, but it’s important how well you play with the cards you hold.

Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, remember Allah and pray, it’s just a bend, not the end.' -

Have faith and have a successful life.
One of the basic differences between Allah and humans is, Allah gives, gives and forgives. But the human gets, gets, gets and forgets.
Be thankful in life...

If u think it is your alarm clock that woke you up this morning, try putting it beside a dead body and you will realise that it is the Grace of Allah that woke you up.

If you are grateful to Allah, forward this to all your friends to inform them that it is JUST BY THE GRACE OF ALLAH that we are alive. Inshaalllah kullu am waantum bikheir 2015 !

IT'S INSPIRING

It's Inspiring

When I complain about the taste of my food
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who used to fasten some stones on his stomach to hold on his hunger

When I complain about how less clothes I have
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who had only two pieces of clothes for the rest of His life

When I complain of how uncomfortable my bed is
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who slept on the palm frond and coarse cloth in his entire life

When I become so miser to give and share with others
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who used to give his everything that he almost left nothing for himself

When I think of how poor I am
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who loved the poor so much and said to be with them in jannah, it cheers me up

When I'm upset of those who hurt me
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who had mercy on those who did evil to Him

When I think of those who hate me
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who always prayed for those who had insulted Him

When people don't thank me for what I do
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who reminded me that the best reward is from Allah's side

When none loves me💕
I remember that I have Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who loves me for thousand years

When I think of how miserable my life is
 I remember Him
 Muhammad ﷺ ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
who had more struggle life than mine, and it strengthens me

May peace be upon Him, my beloved
 May peace be upon Him, my role model
 May peace be upon Him,
 My Rasool Allah Muhammad ﷺ(sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
May peace be upon Him He's the best example
 for our lives!....

Above is the Best Ever Message I have Received.
 Kindly circulate this in ur friend circle and other groups...

THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD!

The Prophet (saw) said "Islam began as
something strange and it will revert to how it
began as something strange. So glad tidings of
Paradise (1) to the strangers" The people asked,
"Who are they, O Messenger of Allaah?" He
answered, "Those who are pious and righteous
when the people have become evil." (Ahmad,
ibn Hibban and others, sahih due to supporting
evidences, see Badr al-Badr's footnotes to Abu
Bakr al-Ajari, Kitaab al-Ghurabaa (Kuwait: Dar
al-Khulata li-Kitaab al-Islaami, 1983) pp.16-18)

Monday, 5 October 2015

REASON TO BE GRATEFUL!!!

Beloved, go through this story and then I pray that you will see the REASON TO BE GRATEFUL!!!

A man reached 70 years of age and was affected by a disease which made him unable to urinate.

The doctors told him that he needs an operation to cure the disease.

He agreed to do the operation as the problem was giving him severe pain for days.

When the operation was completed the doctor gave him a bill which covered all the costs.

After looking at the bill, the man started crying. Upon seeing this, the doctor said "If the cost is too high then we could make some other arrangements for you.

"The old man replied, "I am not crying because of the money but I am crying because God let me urinate for 70 years and He never sent me a bill!"

Beloved, have you thanked God for His countless blessings today?

Have you thought about the cost of oxygen in the hospital? Yet, God has given us free oxygen (air) since we were born.

Is all that God does for us not worth thanking God for? Can we not see that God is so gracious, merciful and full of compassion?

If you are truly grateful to God for your life, share this message with others, not because you expect a blessing but because you are grateful.

I'm grateful!!!

35 WAYS TO RESPECT YOUR PARENTS!!!

35 Ways to Respect your Parents.
May Allah give us sense of ability to
follow these guidelines. Aameen.
1. Put away your phone in their
presence.
2. Pay attention to what they are
saying.
3. Accept their opinions.
4. Engage in their conversations.
5. Look at them with respect.
6. Always praise them.
7. Share good news with them.
8. Avoid sharing bad news with them.
9. Speak well of their friends and loved
ones to them.
10. Keep in remembrance the good
things they did.
11. If they repeat a story, listen like it's
the first time they tell it.
12. Don't bring up painful memories
from the past.
13. Avoid side conversations in their
presence.
14. Sit respectfully around them.
15. Don't belittle/criticize their opinions
and thoughts.
16. Avoid cutting them off when they
speak.
17. Respect their age.
18. Avoid hitting/disciplining their
grandchildren around them.
19. Accept their advice and direction.
20. Give them the power of leadership
when they are present.
21. Avoid raising your voice at them.
22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of
them.
23. Avoid eating before them.
24. Avoid glaring at them.
25. Fill them with pride even when they
don't think they deserve it.
26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of
them or sitting with your back to them.
27. Don't speak ill of them to the point
where others speak ill of them too.
28. Keep them in your prayers always
possible.
29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of
them in their presence.
30. Avoid laughing at their faults/
mistakes.
31. Do a task before they ask you to.
32. Continuously visit them.
33. Choose your words carefully when
speaking with them.
34. Call them by names they like.
35. Make them your priority above
anything.
Parents are treasure on this land and
sooner than you think, that treasure
will be buried. Appreciate your parents
while you still can.
Today lets make loads of duas for our
beloved parents, alive or deceased.
If U love UR parents please forward
this dua!
Ya Allah ease the burdens of our
beloved parents, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah remove their burdens due to
debt, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah ease their pain, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases
they're suffering from, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah never make them dependent
on anyone besides YOU until their last
breath, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ .
We should respect and honour our
parents.
Never hurt them, part of the reason of
all the troubles they're undergoing is
due to us.
Their debts are due to fulfilling our
needs,
their poor health is due to their efforts
in giving us the best.
Their every breath is a sacrifice made
for their children...
Ya Allah bless our parents with
happiness.

Ar~Razzaq

Allah is Ar-Razzaq. It is He Who is the Provider and Bestower of sustenance. He provides and delivers His creations with wha...