Praise be to Allah.
When we constantly belittle our
children there comes a time when
they begin to believe whatever we
have said. This results in low self
esteem and psychological disorders
or complexes. In turn they resort to
irresponsible behavior and habits.
However, when we constantly praise
our children, telling them how
important they are to us, how much
we love them, how gorgeous and
special they are and how proud we
are of them, their self esteem is
boosted, confidence levels shoot up,
they focus on achieving more and
they are more likely to be saved
from dangerous or irresponsible
behavior and habits. This is why we
MUST go out of our way to make
such heart warming statements to
them regularly and never forget to
do the same to ALL our children.
When we constantly belittle our
children there comes a time when
they begin to believe whatever we
have said. This results in low self
esteem and psychological disorders
or complexes. In turn they resort to
irresponsible behavior and habits.
However, when we constantly praise
our children, telling them how
important they are to us, how much
we love them, how gorgeous and
special they are and how proud we
are of them, their self esteem is
boosted, confidence levels shoot up,
they focus on achieving more and
they are more likely to be saved
from dangerous or irresponsible
behavior and habits. This is why we
MUST go out of our way to make
such heart warming statements to
them regularly and never forget to
do the same to ALL our children.
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